“If I didn’t know you I’d rather not know, if I couldn’t have you I’d rather be alone.”
It is so beautiful the lyrics
Well, as obsessive and demanding as it may sound to the ordinary ears; or let’s say the actual act of it is rather creepy rather than romantic (by ordinary ears here are not those heartless or not capable of hearing, but those who never experienced the kind of love to the extreme point of to end up with the certain person; the object of affection, is the only option of choosing, it is out of imagination reach to be with someone else) but from another way of seeing, it shows only purity and clarity, love in its purest and clearest form, it leaves the person no slightest doubt. The person, to have that degree of certainty, a firm cocksurement, must have an imaginary reminder to acknowledge the bid cues by the universe, but that kind of certainty most probably grown overtime rather than instant, as it goes in the lyrics, no one understands me quite like you do, through all this shadowy corner of me. It is through the act of mutual understanding, admiration, respect, etc; basically a series of mutuals. It can be found in best friends or it can be a person we just bumped into (I believe in instant chemistry 🙂). The destined one may already be there, and when the realization hit, it is a relief sigh of all of the while it was you.